FRIENDSHIP……………..

MAKES GOOD FRIENDSHIP

1. ENCOURAGE YOUR FRIEND ..

Real friend inspire and push each other to be the best that they can be, rather than drag each other down. They are happy when other people achieve their goals.

2. BE WILLING TO FORGIVE .

Don't let hurt turn to grudge. This is one sure way to destroy a friendship. Forgive your friend and move on.

3. BE RELIABLE ..

When you say you are gong to be there, be there.

4. DON'T BE A BLABBERMOUTH .

Learn and be willing to keep each other's secrets.

5. LEARN TO ACCEPT PERSONALITY DIFFRENCE IN YOUR FRIENDS…………

Be careful not to evaluate other people by how you react in a particular situation. Do not automatically take your friends behaviour personally.

6. BE THERE 4 THE GOOD AND BAD TIMES ..

Celebrate with them if ur friends r excited about something. However, don't be there just for the good times. When ur friend is upset about something, give them ur full attention. Most of the time, what friends really need is sympathetic ear, someone who understand their feelings.

7. DON'T TRY TO CONTROL YOUR FRIEND

Real friendship does not mean u always has to be together. It may be tempting to have a fun person all to urself,and feel threatened when ur friend spends time with others. If u r afraid of losing them. Good friendship will endure time-spent apart.u and ur friend may learn to appreciate each other even more.

8. FOCUS ON WHAT U CAN GIVE 2 A FRIND, NOT WAT U CAN GET OUT OF A FRIENDSHIP

If being happy is ur only motive 4 wanting someone 2 be ur friend, then u r not being a real friend. Don't get caught up in keeping tabs on who has given most in the friendship. Give 2 ur friends regardless of how much they give 2 u.

9. TACTFULLY POINT OUT THIRE MISTAKES

This is one way 2 show concern 4 others. If u really cares, u will tactfully point out a specific example 4 his own good. However, once u has brought the problem 2 ur friend's attention, don't harp on it all the time. Don't walk away from friendship when u see some of urs friend's faults. Be patient with a friend as he or she tries to change. Realize that no body is perfect.

10. DON'T LET ARGUMENTS DESTORY UR FRIENDSHIP

Suppose u r having a discussion with a friend and after u've said what u think is true,they still disagree. Don't keep arguing until u get mad with each other. Just drop it. Ur desire to win the argument may ruin ur friendship.

ENJOY WITH UR

FRIENDS

GREATEST FEELING…………..!

or my soulmate……

Love is the greatest feeling,
Love is like a play,
Love is what I feel for you,
Each and every day,

Love is like a smile,
Love is like a song,
Love is a great emotion,
That keeps us going strong,

I love you with my heart,
My body and my soul,
I love the way I keep loving,
Like a love I can’t control,

So remember when your eyes meet mine,
I love you with all my heart,
And I have poured my entire soul into you,

Right from the very start.

Love

There are many miles between us,
But our hearts see not the distance.
Drawing our love even closer,
On this my heart it is insistent.

When we talk my heart sings,
You'll never know the happiness it brings.
Just to hear a word from you,
Keeps my heart from being blue.

I love you truly, yes I do.
I forever want to be with you.

For now I'll settle for the phone,
But know it's in your dreams that I belong
Longing for the day we greet,
Two loving hearts will then get to meet.
Never more to be apart,
Knowing it was long distance we got our start.

DONO JAHAAN…………………….!

Meri aarzoo meri justju meri bandagi ho tum

Ho tumhi meri har nazar me meri har duwa me

Ho tum hi mere aaj me aur tum hi mere kal me

Meri zindagi me tum mere sang mere har pal me

Fir kaise ho sakti hu mai tum se juda

Ho base tum hi meri hatho ki lakeero me

Jab se daala hai tune mujh par pyar ki chunar

Tumhi chhaye se rahte ho meri in aankho me

Teri har baato se chhal ke wo pyara tera

Jo humne basaya tha ek duje ke seene me

Simat si gai hai jindagi bas tere aangan me

Khuula aasman bhi lage fika mujhe teri chahat me

Na le mere khuda !tu mera imtahaan

Dono jahaan vaar du mai teri chahat me

"KAHA HO DEVEN"

DIL LUTA DIYA……………..!

Ye jindagi jab se tumse mulaakaat hui meri

Yu laga ki khud se khud ki pehchan hui meri

Mil ke tujhse phir kabhi kisi aur ki chahat na hui

Din guzarte rahe aur zamaane ho gaye

Manzil hai ek aur do raahi chal pade

Jab se thaama hai tumne mera hatho ko

To phir kisi aur ke sath ki chahat na hui

Mehfilo me bhi aur tanhaaiyo me bhi

Bas har pal tu aur tere khayal hi yaad aate rahe

Khushiyo me ya dard bhari purwaiyo me bhi

Jabse tumne mujhe kiya hai shamil

To kisi aur ki hone ki chaaht na hui

Iss dil ne to maangi hai bas ek dua

Tu yu hi karta rahe pyar mujhse jindgi talaq

Jab se tumne mujh par apna dil luta diya hai to

Kisi aaur ke pyar ki bhi ab chaht na rahi

Pa liya hai maine bhi ab to wo sukun

Ji liya hai har wo pal jisme thi meri jindagi basi

Baad usske to ab jindagi kya hai maut ki bhi chahat na rahi

DIL-E-HARF—————–

Aaj uunsse fir mulaakaat hui

Beete lamho ki kuchh baate char hui

Dil ki jawan tamannaye gulzaar hui

Gam-e-hijr me the ji rahe hum bhi

Par yu to aaj khushiyo ki barsaathui

Likha to mainebahut qissa-e-natamam usko

Par aaj ye dil-e-harfuse payaam hui

Meri takallum ka harf-e-matlab bhi aaj hui

Mausam-e-ishaq hai chhaya ab to harsu

Unse izahaar-e- muhabbat to aaj hui

Wafa kiya ussnee aur meri uzr-e-jafaa door hui

Ru-b-ru ho kar jab sara-e-shevaa-e-tasliim hui

KABHI KHUD PE KABHI……………!

Kabhi khud par to kabhi apne hi haalat par hansi aai

Tu na aaya par teri yaad mujhe hasane chali aai

Jaan hu mai teri jab itna hi khayal-e-tasavver aai

To khud par itra ke surkh gaalo par laali si chhai

Padha tha kabhi panno me pyar deewaana hota hai

Par tujhko mil ke usski kimat to aaj samjh aai

Ab kya haal-e-dil kahu humdam mere tujhse

Pal bhar ki doori teri mujhe kitne kareeb laai

Aaj jaana hai iss dil ki deewangi ka suruur

Jab aankho me mere tere khawbo ki taabir aai

Dil ki dhadkane karti hai ek tere hi naam ka sumiran

Aaine me apne chehre me teri hi chhvi paai

Khabhi mai khud par itraai kabhi aaina dekh sharmaai

Sanam teri ishq-e-nuur meri aankho me harpal pade dikhai

Hai ye mera deewanapan aur ye mohabbat ka suruurr

Ay dil-e-naadan itni si baat kyu na meri samjh aai

DIL KI KITAAB……………….!DEVEN

Padha hai tumne jab se mere dil ki kitaab ko

Hasil hua hai har wo sukun dil-e-naadan ko

Hasrate thi kab se ek nazar de mere kalam ko

Jii uddhi mai dekh ke tere kadmo ke nishaan ko

Ek tere aa jaane se laut aai hai raunak aur

Nazaren inayaat ki hai tune fiza bhari gulistaan ko

Gulshan gulshan mehaka hai rom rom khil udhe

Ek noor se jagmaga diya hai tune mere dil-e-jahaan ko

Yu liya hai karwat jindagi ne aur huye hai jazbaat naye

Shagufta kar gaye ho tum mere khawb-o-khayal ko

Jindagi ho tum meri aur ekrar-e-mohabbat bhi

Gulzaar kar gaye ho tum meri her veeran raato ko

Sara-e-jindagi ho tum hai ye khabar tumhe bhi

Tujhse milke chaaya hai khumaar meri har nazar ko

"I LOVE U DEVEN"

DEEWAANA TERA ————

Meri har baat me uski hi baat rahti hai

Har pal bas uski hi aas rahti hai

Wo samjhte hai mere dil ki har baat

Isiliye ye zubaan khamosh rahti hai

Mere dil ki dhadkan meri jaan hai wo

Mere har khayal me bas usi ki yaad rahti hai

Duniya me wo hi hai sabse payara mujhe

Isliye meri har baat me uski baat rahti hai

Uske aajane se aajati hai chehre par ronak

Wo na ho to meri duniya udas rahti hai

Mere har shai se aati hai khushbu uski

Meri har baat me uski hi baat rahti hai

Wo meri rooh ka sukun aur mannat meri

Aur kuchh na jaanu pahlu me uske Sara-e-jannat rahti hai

YE DIL DEEWAANA—————-

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Ye mere shah-e-khumaar ye mere jaan-e-jaana wo baate teri wo fasana tera

Sagufta sagufta bahaana banana aur mujhe dekh lutf udhana tera

Kareeb aake muskuraana aur phir aankho ke samander me doob jaana tera

Viraane dil me aake ek deep jalaanaa aur umeedo ke phool khilana tera

Bahut yaad aata hai sahil ke rate par bin piye nashe me sang tere jhoomna mera

Aur tadpa jata hai judai ke pal me teri tasveer ko seene se laga ke rona mera

Wo tera sham-e-abaad karma aur fir tanhaa mujhe chhood jaana tera

Hizr ki raat me subah ke intzar me beete ayyam ko yaad dilaana tera

Jab chhalke aakho se aansu to apni hatheli par ashqo ko rookna tera

Dil ke hazar tukade kar meri yaado ke sang subah talg laut jaana tera

Talkhi-e-hosh ke dekhe hai rang kai maine aur milte hi lipat ke roona mera

Mumkin hai tujhko milke muskuraana aur har dard bhool jaana mera

Tanhaai ke daur me bhi teri yaado ki mehfil saja ke muskurana aur har lamha tassaver me aana tera

Sara-e-jaan hai tu aur isaq-e-junuun hai aur sanso ka sagufta bhi tu yu hi nahi hai ye dil deewana tera

(talki-e-hosh………॥reality of life)

INN LAMHO KE DAMAN ME……………!

Marke bhi na wada apna todenge

Tera sath hum na kabhi chhodenge

Inn lamho ke daman me bas apne rishte hai

Sans chhute par tera sath na chhodenge

Kaisa ye isaq hai kaisa ye khawab hai

Har lamha bas tere hi sath nibhayenge

Kaisa ye zazbaat ka umada sailab hai

Tere isaq ke samandar me doob jayenge

Meri aarjoo tu hi meri zuftuju tu hi

Meri kalma tu hi kaise tum bin hum rehpayenge

Mere isaq ka imthaan na lena

Prwaane saa ham tum par marr mit jayenge

Mana hai ye mera dewaana pan tujhe jo toot ke chaha

Ishq ke her imtahaan ki hadd se hum to gujar jayenge

uske pass hai !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hai rishto ki fikra hame kyoki

Woh to mera wakif-e-haal hai

Wo to meri subah-e-uroj hai

Wahi to mera waqt -e-zawal hai

Meri har baat wo manta hai

Meri har baat wo janta hai

Wo mila mujhe jab sadiyo baad

Mere lab par ab na raha koi sawal hai

Wo meri chup par ro diya

Ye to hamari guftgu ka kamal hai

Chahat se badkar chaha hai use

Sara-e-Sitam uske dil par dhaya hai

Likha dariya ye muhabbat ka yu hi bahta rahe

Bheja tha khat use kabhi wo aaj bhi uske pass hai

10 Ideas to Help You Remember …

10 Ideas to Help You Remember …

You are busy and you have tons of things to do. How can you possibly remember it all? Having a sharp memory recall can be as simple as finding ways to help jog your memory throughout the day. H�re are 10 quick ideas: 1. Write It Down……………………. With the amount of things you have to remember in any given day, why should you try to stuff it all into your memory bank? When you want to remember something, the very best thing to do is write it down. Then, when you need to recall it, it will be there for you in an instant. 2. Keep It Together…………………….. When you write down things you want to remember, keep them in one consistent place. Otherwise, you're going to spend a lot of time looking for your notes. 3. Maintain Good Health………………………. Eat healthy foods, get enough sleep, and exercise. These are all important for your memory, staying focused and being alert. 4. Record Your Thoughts………………….. Sometimes you might want to remember something, but it's impossible for you to write it down, such as when you're driving. A little hand held tape recorder is a wonderful gadget to carry around with you and record your thoughts, or your parking space number, or a ph�ne number you see on a billboard. 5. Call Yourself…………………… If you're at the office, and you want to do something when you arrive home, call your answering machine and leave yourself a message. When you get home, you'll listen to your message and remember exactly what you wanted to do. 6. Believe In Yourself…………………. If you keep saying you have a bad memory, you'll probably continue to have a bad memory. It's important to have a motivated, I CAN remember attitude. 7. Send Yourself E-Mail Reminders……………………. There are many fr�e e-mail reminder services available. You simply type in what you want to remember, such as a birthday, anniversary or event, and you then receive an e-mail reminder when the date is approaching. 8. Post Sticky Notes…………………………. Those wonderful, little sticky notes can be amazing memory helpers. Want to remember something before you leave the house? Jot it down on a Post-It Note and stick it on the inside of your door. You'll be sure to see it as you're getting ready to walk out. Have to make an urg�nt call first thing in the morning? Leave a Post-It Note on your telephone. 9. Set Timers and Alarms………………… Take advantage of alarm clocks and timers throughout the day. Have to take the clothes out of the wash at 3:00? Set your alarm clock to remind you. Want to leave for the basketball game by 6:15? Set your timer to beep a few minutes before. 10. Use Visual Reminders…………………… Visual reminders can help you remember and focus. I especially like visual reminders for remembering your goals. If your goal is to take a trip to a beautiful island in a few years, keep a magazine photograph of the island right on your desk. If your goal is to own your own business one day, find a picture or ornament that will help remind you of this goal each day

JHEEL KA KINARA……………………!

Chand tanha sham suhani aur ye jheel ka kinara

Kuchh kahe kuchh ankahe fasaana humara

Chand tha chandni ki aagosh me

Hum the apne nabi ke gurbat me

Barso se takte rahe aasma ke chand ko

Chand dekh raha tha aaj sath humara

Chand chhupa tha badli me

Chehra tha chhupa ghani julffo me

Thehra hua tha paani jheel me

The baithe hum bhi liye jheel ka kinara

Chand se kuchh na chhupaya gaya

Her dil-e-jajbaat usse na sunaya gaya

Gawah tha wo bhi meri mehfil-e-tanhaai ka

Chand ne duuhraaya tha aaj usske samne taraanaa humara

Tha mera nabi bhi hairat me aaj

Thehar gaya tha chand bhi jheel ke paani me aaj

Dab-dabai thi aankhe ashq the mere rekhsaar par theharaa

chup tha nabi mera aur ban gaya tha deewaana mera

CHAHAT NA HUI……….!

Milke tujh seay jindagi

Kisi aur ki phir chahat na hui

Din guzrte huye saal-o-saalhuye

Manjil hai ekaur hum sath chal pade

Tumne jab se hai thama haath mera

To kisi aur ke sath ki chahat na hui

Mehfilo me bhi tanhaaiyo me bhi

Har pal bas yaad aate rahe tum

Dard bhari purwai me bhi sath the tum

Jab se tumne hai apna samjha hume

To kisi aur ki ban jaane ki chahat na hui

Dil ne thi mangi bas ek duwa

Ye jindagi tu de mujhe ek katra pyar ka

Tumne de diya hume sagar pyar ka

Yu Pake pyar tera kisi aur ke pyar ki chaht na hui

Yu bhardi hai meri jindagi tune khushiyo se

Har gum bhi ab to yu muskuraane lage hai

Rehta hai ye dil ab to teri panahoo me

Kabhi karta tha ye dil khuda ki bandagi

Mana hai jab se tujhe khuda to ab khuda ki chahat na hui

FOR MY CUTE SWEETHEART ——-

hild of our heart!
We’ve become one family,

It’s your birthday, but we got the gift…
a gentle, sweet, beautiful daughter
who is always a pleasure to be with
You glow with sensitivity and compassion
generated from the depths
of your warm heart and and kind soul.
Anyone who spends time with you
is privileged to know
such an extraordinary person
You are a great joy in our lives
We love you and cherish you and treasure you
and wish that every one of your birthdays
will be the happiest yet

Many many happy returns of the day and May u Live long & happy life

MANN DARPAN………..!

This song is very close to my heart)

Toraa man darpan kahalaaye
bhale, bure saare, karamon ko dekhe aaur dikhaaye

man hee dewataa, man hee eeshwar
man se badaa naa koee
man ujiyaaraa, jab jab faile
jag ujiyaaraa hoye
is ujale darpan par praanee, dhool naa jamane paaye

sukh kee kaliyaan, dukh ke kaante
man sab kaa aadhaar
man se koee, baat chhoope naa
man ke nain hajaar
jag se chaahe bhaag le koee, man se bhaag naa paaye

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ckdDNhbmYcc

thanx for reading

EK BENAAM SA DARD……………..!

Ek benaam sa dard kyu thahargaya hai dil me

Beete kal ki tarah wohguzar kyo nahi jaataa

Hai sukum fir bhi jaane kya dhoodhti rehati hai nigahe

Jaane kya baat hai waqt par har kaam kyu nahi kiya jaata

Kya hua hai mujhe kyu rahne lagi hu mai udas

Kyu rakhti hu ek aas jo duur hai woh dil se uttar kyo nahi jaata

Kyu ban gai hu mai apni hi uljhi hui raaho ka tamasha

Jaate hai jidhar sab mujhese udhar kyu nahi jaaya jaataa

Kyu aa jaata hai wo tasaveer me mere baar baar

Hai agar wo ek dhuundh to aankho se hat kyu nahi jaata

Na jaanu mai usse na phachanu mai usse na wo hai mera

Woh agar khawb hai to bikhar kyo nahi jaataa

Waqt ne kyu aisa sitam hai di par dhaaya ya Rab!

Meri duniya se wo duur kyo nahi chalaa jaataa

BAS ITNA HI JAANU ””””””””””””””””””

Kya hai preet ye to mai na jaanu

Tu hi payar hai mera bas itna hi jaanu

Baadal si barsu ghata banke chhau

Dil ye chaahe har janam tujhko hi paau

Mai payar ki koi reet na jaanu

Har janam ka tujhko hi preet maanu

Jeevan ke saare rang tujhme hi dekhu

Payaar ki reet aur preet tujhse hi seekhu

Mujhe lage hai har rang piya tere pyare

Bin piya ke mai to kuchh na jaanu

Dukh sukh me mai to rahu sang piya ke

Har pal apne piya ka sang hi maangu

Bin piya ke mujhe bhaaye na ye duniya

Tu hi meri duniya hai mai bas itna hi jaanu